When you genuinely feel like helping someone, there will always be a way out. It may be possible that your help might not reach the person but the thought of wanting to help him counts and so does that feeling. When we genuinely give advice to people whom we’re wanting to help, many a times it happens that while answering to their query, we find an answer for the question that was troubling us. That’s how we suddenly get filled by peace. So if you’re going through a tough time, keep yourself aside for once and look around. You will always find someone else too going through a bad phase. Help the person with all your heart and all the love left in you. When you see that person smile again, you’ll discover your answer too. If you can’t, close your eyes and open your mind as there will be an answer to satisfy you. If your help does not reach the person who you wish to help, remember that you’re trying and one day the best will happen to that person. Try it again though you’ve experienced this before. This is one way that doesn’t fail. Thinking about our own problems all the time is selfish. Don’t you agree?